Newways Counselling For Wellbeing

Have you ever found yourself knowing exactly what you should do next, but feeling unable to take it? The motivation just isn’t there.

Your body feels heavy and low on energy. Your mind is foggy, making it hard to concentrate. Emotionally, you might notice irritability, anxiety, sadness, or a sense of emptiness. Things that once felt meaningful no longer spark the same interest. Curling up in bed feels far more doable than pushing forward, especially when the effort no longer seems worth it. Or maybe sleep itself has become elusive, leaving you tired before the day even begins.

These experiences can be signs of the winter blues, burnout, or simply the aftermath of a stressful season. Sometimes, pushing through isn’t possible, and that doesn’t mean you’re failing.

Start With Kindness Toward Yourself

When energy is low and motivation feels out of reach, being kind to yourself may be the most important first step. Not as a reward for productivity, but as a foundation for healing.

Instead of asking, “Why can’t I do more?” try asking, “What have I been carrying?”

Gently Reflect on What You’ve Been Through

Stress accumulates quietly. Take a moment to reflect on what you’ve been navigating emotionally, mentally, physically. This can help bring clarity and self-compassion.

In the midst of these lower moments, were there small things that still brought you a sense of ease or joy?

  • Completing even one simple task
  • Sipping a warm cup of tea
  • Reading or writing for a few quiet minutes
  • Sitting in stillness without expectations

These moments matter more than they may seem.

Let Nature Support You

If it’s accessible to you, spending time outside during daylight can make a meaningful difference. Even on cloudy days, fresh air, gentle movement, and natural light can help lift your energy and mood. Replenishing vitamin D may also be beneficial during darker months.

Think of it as a prescription for nature. We can support you in a prescription to Parks Canada. Ask for that in your free 20 min consultation with us.

Build a New, Gentle Rhythm

Whatever brings you moments of comfort or joy, consider returning to it consistently—not to force change, but to allow a new rhythm to slowly emerge.

This season may not be about doing more. It may be about doing what sustains you.

You are the most important person in your life right now. Before caring for others, tending to your own well-being is not selfish, it’s necessary. Through small, practical steps toward joy, you create space for restoration, clarity, and eventually, renewed meaning.